Getting married is an exciting time in your life. Of course, you want everything to go perfect, but many times the unexpected happens and you’re forced to improvise. This article will give you tips for dealing with common wedding day issues without losing your cool, or ruining your big day.
Weddings are stressful. That is for sure. Whether it is big or small, there will be things that go wrong. Having a friend of confidant other than your soon-to-be spouse, will help you make it through the process. Having a friend who is on your side and who doesn’t throw their opinion in on what color the dresses should be, is a brides essential.
Your guests are likely to be hungry and tired after the ceremony, so why not provide them with snacks as they make their way to the reception? Have someone stand at the door with hors d’oeuvres on a tray and small glasses of something refreshing to drink. Your guests will greatly appreciate it!
Make sure your maid of honor is someone with whom you are really close. Your wedding day is something you will remember for the rest of your life, and you want to make sure your most loved family member or friend is part of that. If you cannot pick who you want your maid of honor to be, just have more bridesmaids.
If you are a maid of honor or best man in a wedding, you may want to consider writing your speech before the wedding. Having to think of what to say on the spot can cause you embarrassment and pressure. Make sure to include what you like about the newlyweds and what they mean to you.
It is okay to let loose at your wedding reception. Many people take their wedding day too serious and do not remember it is supposed to be a joyous occasion. When this happens, they look back at their special day with unpleasant memories. Laugh with your guests, and dance to upbeat music.
Make sure your wedding reception lighting can be dimmed at the venue. You will want to have the option to dim the lights during dances or have bright lighting during the ceremony. Be sure to find out about these details before you decide for sure.
When young children are in the wedding party, make sure they are dressed in clothing that is comfortable for them. Use soft, loose fitting fabrics. The children’s new shoes should be broken in and comfortable. This allows the kids time to focus on what they have to do instead of struggling with their outfits.
Instead of heavy room fragrances, candles, and oil diffusers, you can carefully select flowers and herbs to create a more natural, earthy aroma for your venue. Citrus-esque scents, such as those of mimosas, lemon verbena, and waxflower, are ideal for daytime weddings that are held in summery locations or tropical oceanfront settings.
Ask your little sister to play at your wedding! Perhaps one of your relatives or friends has played a musical instrument all their lives? Perhaps they have a couple of friends they could invite to accompany them? What more memorable music could you possibly want? They’ll be delighted to accommodate you and you won’t have to pay a professional to do the job.
As stated at the beginning of the article, getting married is an exciting time in your life, but unexpected things may happen. Chances are, 10 years after your wedding you won’t even remember those “major crisis” moments. If wedding day disasters strike, apply the tips from this article to help remain calm, cool, and collected.